But anyway...
These days, I've been hearing a lot from my cousins and friends about them experiencing the same thing over and over and over again. Being the single (most expectedly the one with a lot of advice) one, I should always have to say something. And now, I'm writing a blog about it and the next time they ask me for something to say, I'll just have them read this.
First, the reason why we experience the same things repeatedly is because we fail to avoid what we once did wrong. Like for example: he said sorry, you forgave him, he did it again, you left him, he said he was sorry, you took him back. This is pretty much the reason why we suffer. It is basically because we are so reluctant to even help ourselves. We say we're hurt, and hurt too much, but once the pain comes knocking in, we still open the door, and hug it. Warm. As said in one of the books: "That's the thing with pain: it demands to be felt." And everybody just won't see it coming until it hits them between the eyes.
Second, you are in between a clash. A clash between your heart and your mind. And you don't have a way to get away from it. Or to choose.
My mom would always tell me to follow my heart, but I should take my brain with me. Because basically, my heart is a tiger that just got out of its cage. It has the 99% possibility of ruining everything. So does your heart. And I can tell you, the problem is you. Not your heart nor your brain. You know what to do, just what was exactly right and you'd be stupid enough to do the wrong one, and end up being hurt, again. And complain about everything.
Finally, stop being an askhole (one who asks for advice then do the exact opposite). From the person (you asked)'s point of view, that is what will keep you from hurting yourself.
Idk, just stop being stupid.
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