It is better to lose your pride in front of your loved one, than to lose your loved one because of your pride.

People, as we usually see them are selfish animals that would always fight for what they believe. Being this kind is in between of good and bad. I consider this good because, as we were taught when we were kids, we should fight for our thoughts. Somehow, this is also a negative. Most of us have heard the saying that goes: Everything that exceeds is bad. Sometimes, while focusing on being this warriors and knights of belief, we do not recognize we are already banging our own army.

            Being these usual selfish and dominant exultant hypocrites, we ought to often keep an enthralled eye onto our pride. We live by it that we even forget how and when to keep a hold on this. Frequently, we would hold it so tight and won’t let go until reality comes hitting us between the eyes. While we are crushing our palms against our pride and not wanting to let go, we do not see the possible upshots of being this attached. We might not see it clearly, but we are losing something more important, or worse, someone who matters.

            In this tangled situation inside a constantly changing realm, it is alright be wrong. This is what mealy humans do not know. They seem to always imagine life as if they will be head-shot when they admit they are somehow incorrect. All they have to keep in mind is life is not perfect, and so they do not have to be perfect as well.

            Let’s end with a piece of advice. Keep in our minds that apologizing does not always mean that you are wrong and the other right, sometimes we apologize because we value that person much more than our pride. You can never be happy only having your pride beside you. You need friends, and you cannot be happy with them if you have your high-rise pride meddle in between.